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Song rec: Lemon To A Knife Fight


Hero to zero
I pick up the bill
The brake lights cast a red light
And the road twists round the hill
Lipstick on the backseat
Saliva on the dash
I've clawed my way out of here before
But I keep on coming back

Happy December yo.:)

"You're just seeking attention, stop it."

Here I am, going about my day being lazy as usual, but suddenly recalling something an acquaintance once said:

"You're just seeking attention, stop it."

So I decided to rant a little about it. It's nothing much but once in a while the sentence will pop up in my head - it's hella annoying so let's get it out here. UGH. (in fact, a lot of things they said pissed me off but that's another story🤦🏻)

Well, in context, that was what they said in response to people sharing stuff about their lives on social media. If you're one of those sharing your emotions on the Internet through posts on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc., chances are that they meant you too. Sorry. Eh I'm pretty sure in 2017, most of us do share bits and pieces about ourselves on social media, to varying extents.

What they said was so dumb that it still dwells me in today because I wish I had the guts to tell them to shut up back then.


So what if you like to share about your grades/achievements on Facebook? So what if you wish to share about a good meal you just had on Instagram Stories? So what if you want to tweet about your recent visit to the doctor for flu?

According to that acquaintance, those are acts of attention-seeking. They think that there is absolutely no point in making that kind of posts to "wayang" (trans: putting on an act when nothing is being done), that those kind of posts are dumb and nobody cares.

LIKE, OMG, SO WHAT.

If you want to show off and feel proud of your achievements, go ahead! If you want everyone to know what you just ate, whether you cooked it or paid for it, whether you enjoyed it or hated it, go ahead! If you want your friends to know that you have fallen sick and need some support from friends over social media, GO AHEAD!

We, humans, have a certain level of belonging and ego needs to fulfil man. GO FULFIL YOUR NEEDS. Or maybe you just need an outlet to vent. Maybe you don't have a best friend to tell everything to and it's cool to share with everyone what you do, on the social media.

Whichever it is, don't listen to people who just love to 泼冷水 (trans: literally "pour cold water", meaning being a wet blanket - someone who ruins others' fun) all the time.

I hate how what they said makes me feel guilty whenever I overshare on social media. (Yes I know I'm sensitive but whatever). Okay so now I'm just gonna tell myself this: they are entitled to their narrow opinions and shitty comments that often make people feel bad, which I should just ignore already and do whatever I want.

As long as you're not hurting anyone when sharing about your life on social media, there's definitely nothing wrong with doing so! *cough* Use social media responsibly! *cough*

In fact, most of us lurking on the Internet are such busybodies that we simply love knowing more about other people's lives. Haha this is kind of like economics - since there are demands, obviously we need enough supply to feed the busybodies, simple as that.

So, who cares if we're asking for attention or not?🤷🏻

Cafe hopping in JB

Went cafe hopping in Johor Bahru over the weekend. Very impromptu, but I decided to make a video on it! Armed with my failing iPhone6s, I struggled a bit here and there trying to capture nice moments during my day trip. Honestly, I have never really made a proper video like this before and have always wanted to try making one so the trip was the perfect opportunity for me to test this out haha.

Since I'm pretty lazy as usual, I'll just let the video and photos speak (mind you, I spent hours on the video anyway - as a newbie at making videos - so it's not like I put in zero effort lol)


Eh I hope the video above is okay. Seems like video editing is a good skill to have, maybe I should try it out again (when I have the chance to) next time? :)

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8.36am, waking up in the morning / Gotta be fresh, gotta go downstairs / Gotta have my bowl, gotta have cereal 🎶🎵






Wild Batman spotted! Shh he doesn't know that we know he's Bruce Wayne.


Being a fan of The Flash of course I was delighted to see tables spotting the character \o/



Can you feel how hot the weather was from this photo? It was literally burning omg. Oww my eyes.




The two skimpy pieces of sandwich that I waited almost an hour for... don't wanna fault them for it but do they really need that long to make these sandwiches?? Not bad though, I guess.


I love clouds so much?! Fluffy clouds always make me feel better about everything :)








夕阳西下

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Okay that's all. Bye I'm so sleepy ;-@

The woes of online shopping

As I add yet another item to my virtual shopping cart, I realised something a tad bit too late. All my purchases over the Internet has always been driven by "Why not?" instead of wants, much less needs.

It's really bad. I could be adding a leather dress to my cart when it isn't even my style.

Do I have a problem? Well, maybe.

But then again, with the massive amount of goods that can be easily ordered over the bits and bytes - that know our online behaviour so well - it's kind of hard to resist any "Why not?" that pops up in my head as I get sidetracked while searching for a product I wish to buy.

This may sound similar to point-of-purchase displays in retail marketing, in which strategies in stores attempt to influence purchase decisions at the last minute for shoppers ready to pay for their items. Typically, this is done in your brick and mortars for areas near the cashier. Remember on those display shelves beside the counter, those $2 chocolate bars selling at $3 for 2 that you bought because "why not"? Damn. I know I did. I always fall for marketing tricks. *facepalms*

Well, in a way, it's way worse when you shop online (special shoutout: curse you Taobao! *coughs*). These surprise attacks don't only get launched on you as you approach the cashier - or in this case, the checkout button I suppose? THEY RAID YOU EVERYWHERE.

With every click, the e-commerce trash follows you, ready to pounce any second. All their "suggested for you", "items we know you would like *smirk face*", "trending items", "suggested search options" section hanging on the sidebars, sitting at the bottom of the page, etc.

Ahhh, these algorithms. They think they are so clever. Okay, um, I guess they are. Eh, not discrediting anyone here.

Between you and me, I am actually really delighted with Taobao's recommendation system. On their mobile app's home screen, they always make FANTASTIC suggestions to me, especially when they step on their own feet recommending items I have already saved, but sold by another seller at a way cheaper price (lmao).

But who is suffering at the end of the day?

No, definitely not just me. It would be unjust to put myself forward as the mere victim of this mess. My heart is simply collateral damage in situations like this.

You know who the biggest victim is? MY WALLET. Rumour has it that it has been weeping since I learned what online shopping it :'(

This is kinda a weird thing for me to talk about actually. Being someone who yawns within seconds of stepping into a fashion retail store, I don't know why I get caught up with Taobao so easily (other than it being significantly cheaper and I don't actually see my money going away physically when shopping online haha). It's a vicious cycle - I buy something, that something arrives, then I go back to the platform to look for more... rinse and repeat. Not even getting shitty products can stop me from going back.

Sigh.

Cheers to my wallet for braving all my stormy "Why not?" all these times. You have been a survivor, you adorable little Gryffindor. 

...and here's to hoping that the leather dress fits when it arrives. Hah.

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Why am I writing about online shopping at midnight? I have no idea man, I do things on a whim. I came here to complain about my bad habit shopping on the Internet but it turned into a full-length blog post lol. I'm so sleepy now and yes, I know I'm wasting my time but at the same time I'm pretty proud I finally made a proper post on this blog!

It has been a long time since I last typed so much about shits. Feels great :)

Song rec: 我不是神


我不是神 卻想給你陽光
讓妳的心長出新的土壤
讓愛 可以 重新在那裡綻放

我不是神 卻拼命到逞強
為妳驅散頑強的迷心降
就算 最後 妳愛的不是我 那又怎樣

2017 Singapore F1 Night Race (OneRepublic!)

Hmm before September ends, lemme just pop back here to update this dead blog I almost forgot about (coughs). Kindly note that the event in this post happened like two weeks ago. Updating late because my lazy ass was too busy rolling around in bed doing nothing (Well in my defence, I was swamped with school assignments and work too!!)

Last year as I was browsing my Instagram feed looking at all the photos of acquaintances attending F1 and enjoying the event, I told myself that I will definitely check out F1 the next year. Even though I know nuts about racing, all the hype makes me interested. In addition, I had previously worked outside the F1 venue as a surveyor for 3 consecutive years prior, so yea, curiosity really builds up over the years haha.

All is great this year, I got to attend F1! Wheeee.



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Starting the evening with a good meal :-) Ehhh, some salted egg seafood fried rice special, if I recall correctly. Just when I thought the salted egg fad is over, all these salted egg flavoured menu continue to pop up everywhere I go. Maybe it isn't a mere fad after all... hmm how formidable.


Aaaaand here.... my pretty F1 pass! Kind of upset that I lost it because it could have been a good keepsake :'(










The cars went by super fast! It was also kinda funny how people were trying to take selfies with those racings cars zooming by, it's almost like a challenge haha.



The crazy crowd waiting for OneRepublic...





Awesome performances! So glad I saw OneRepublic, really love their songs! :')


Faded temporary tattoo the next morning #cheapthrills haha.

Well, adios for now.

Where can I go, to sing and be happy

I started this blog to write! To!! Write!!!! But I am still overflowing with words simply because I am too lazy to type my thoughts out. Hopefully, I'll find the time and motivation to properly update this blog soon. I have a little too much to complain sometimes, not sure if they'll be appropriate but yupppp.

Meanwhile, I am (kind of) proud of these photos I took at work:






Also, here are my 战利品 (loots) from KBS Music Bank World Tour in Singapore on Friday! No, I didn't pay three hundred bucks and attend the concert. Still not sure if I still be sad about it or not because while I didn't have a wonderful experience like the concert attendees, I am not short of three hundred like the rest hmm. Okay excuse me while I try to make myself feel better.

Yea but anyway, I just couldn't stop myself from joining the hype with all the merchandise sellers and fansite giveaways. Went a little crazy my wallet started cursing at me. You, reading this right now, must be judging me huh. That is if anyone is even reading this at all (hah). Even so, isn't the joy of "chasing" celebrities part of youth? Maybe one day I'm gonna look back and be so embarrassed by the younger me, but right now, I'm just gonna indulge myself more and enjoy the fun of being smitten by *coughs* my boys.